The inspiration for this Constellation workshop, on 23 October, came from observing a weaver bird who behaved differently to the rest of his flock. He was the only weaver who came to feed on the aloe flowers, while the others haggled at the bird feeder or busied themselves building this season's nests. In human terms he would be called the Black Sheep of the family - daring to do things differently from the family norm.   In Family Constellations, according to…