What Lies behind the Magic of Constellations?
When I first encountered constellations the word I would often use to describe them was magic. Magic, for me, being something that is amazing, unexpected and not easily explained. The […]
Speaking the Unspoken
“Children should be seen but not heard” was a favourite saying of my grandfather. At school, we learnt to “only speak when spoken to” and “not to speak out of
Conscience in Family Constellations
What is Conscience? Guilt and Innocence Conscience is experienced through the feeling of guilt and innocence. With bad conscience comes the feeling of guilt and with good conscience the sense
Family Constellations: A controversial and bold ‘development’ in therapeutic practices
Family Constellations: A controversial and bold ‘development’ in therapeutic practices I was interviewed by Catherine del Monte, a journalist from the Daily Maverick, on Family Constellations. I was one of the
The Orders of Love
Bert Hellinger explains that under pinning all family systems are the Orders of Love. When the Orders of Love are not in order it is difficult for love to flow through the family system. Individuals get caught up in entanglements.