Family Constellations

Online Constellation Circle – Bringing in Balance

Does staying in balance in your life feel like a circus performance?  You know those juggling acts where the performer has several plates spinning at the same time.  Or like a happy balance, when 2 children position themselves exactly right on a seesaw in equilibrium.  So even though its for just a slow-motion moment they are suspended in perfect balance before the next up and down. From a Family Constellations perspective,  balance is about giving and taking. This is one…

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Constellation Conversations Ways of working in the Knowing Field

Peer Constellation Conversations – Ways of Working in the Knowing Field

This is a conversation for facilitators and facilitators in training. In the last conversation, we explored the Knowing Field. This time we will explore the ways of working in the knowing field. Since Bert Helinger introduced Family Constellations many different styles have emerged. This is a chance to share experiences of the different ways of working. From my understanding, Bert Hellinger’s work emerged from Classical Constellations to Movement of Soul to Movement of Spirit/Mind to Spiritual Constellations. Insa Sparrer and…

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Constellation Circle – Black Sheep & Belonging

The inspiration for this Constellation workshop, on 23 October, came from observing a weaver bird who behaved differently to the rest of his flock. He was the only weaver who came to feed on the aloe flowers, while the others haggled at the bird feeder or busied themselves building this season’s nests. In human terms he would be called the Black Sheep of the family – daring to do things differently from the family norm.   In Family Constellations, according to…

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The Orders of Love

The Orders of Love Family and Systemic Constellations is built on the foundation of the “Orders of Love’. The System does all it can – from a space of love – to keep these Orders of Love in place. This could be a family system, a system in Nature or even a corporate system. We become entangled when we ignore the Orders of Love. We may unconsciously lovingly carry the burden of an ancestor, a parent or a sibling. We…

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Changing my Story

I need to change my story that goes “My father almost died”.  I was speaking to my friend Sam. I was sitting in the same spot in the garden that I’d been sitting in a few days earlier holding a dove that had flown into a window. A raptor was sitting in a tree opposite us. Waiting. I held the dove to protect it from a certain death. It was on the anniversary of my mother’s passing.  I was not…

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Mosiac Heart with Dragonfly

Letting the Wind Blow in Trust

When the wind is blowing like this – the Air element is making its presence known. The Air Element is about communication – from creating the sound of your words as air passes over your vocal cords to the airwaves that support electronic communication.

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Creating Connection and Opening the Heart

That same heart opening I felt watching these two elephants, I so often feel during Family Constellation work. These giant beings embody that graceful honouring and gentle surrendering to one’s Life that may be witnessed towards the end of a Group Family Constellation

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Closed yellow oxalis flowers pushing their way through red soil

Emerging into Flow

I’m in awe of the tenacity of these delicate petals that in their tight binding push their way through the rain soften clay earth.

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Robyn Fergus and Tanja Meyburgh in Sydney at Constellation Intensive

Revoking Soul Contracts

I have always had a great need to be in control. It took me a long time to figure that out. I needed to keep things together. Avoiding situations where I could loose control of myself or what was happening round me. 

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